Your ex girlfriend wants to be friends and you are crushed. Is it even possible to be friends with an ex? Perhaps you are thinking she wants to be friends so she can keep you on the back burner forever…
What a bunch of B.S. Now how are you going to deal with the fact that your ex girlfriend wants to be friends?
Here’s How You Respond When An Ex Girlfriend Wants To Be Friends
In theory, when she said she wanted to just be friends, your best option would have been to say, “Okay, I think that’s probably best for the both of us right now.” Just agree to breaking up.
This is your first strategic counter move to eventually get your ex girlfriend back. You can even make it sound like you are glad to be free of her, but don’t overdo it.
Break Up Counter Moves Are Great In Theory
If everything in life was theoretical, it would be great. By now, your chance for that has long passed. In all probablity, you were shell shocked when your ex girlfriend told you she wanted to be friends. Maybe you didn’t respond in the best way. Don’t worry. All is not lost.
Stopping contact with your ex girlfriend is the first thing you should do. Rather than vanishing, just become a lot more scarce to her.
Do These Things To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back:
* You agree with the break up and make her think that all is fine and that you are really good friends.
* Never give her any advice about her current relationship difficulties with another guy, even if she asks for it.
* You are now no longer available to your ex girlfriend like you were before the break up. It is important for you to make her realize that she cannot expect you to be available to her in the same way as before your breakup.
Danger Of Ex Girlfriend Wanting You Back Right Away:
Sometimes right after breaking up with a boyfriend, gals try to rekindle the romance. They do this because there are no other immediate offers and ex girlfriends have a way of getting bored and lonely.
Don’t go back to her right at that moment. If she does try to get you back right away, she really does not know what she wants. If you want your ex girlfriend back for good, don’t let her talk you into getting back together right away.
It doesn’t seem to make sense, but it works. A good understanding of human nature is the foundation for any plan to get back together with your ex girlfriend. Generally, people crave what is beyond their reach.
If you play this break up strategy right, your ex girlfriend will be wanting you more than ever before, but you need a strategic plan of attack.
