There are many men and women who are in a “still in love with ex” situation. These men and women have tried to let go and move on, but they can’t. This is understandable. A lot of us tend to let go and move on after the devastating break ups as we go through, or at lease we try to move on.
We only move on when we choose to accept that the break up is over and that there’s nothing we can do to save the relationship. Constantly we hear from people “just move on”, “you don’t need them” or “life’s too short to spend it trying to get someone back.”
Relationships can go on for years and decades even, and during this time the two partners are sharing their minds, bodies and souls with one another. They have fun together creating unforgettable memories, building a strong bond and connection to one another, have children, and they share things that are so personal about themselves with their partner that no one else in the world knows them.
These are all the reasons why its more important to save a relationship rather than throw it away and start all over again with someone else. Relationships are serious and there are many people on who never get a chance to experience being in one.
If you’re in a “still in love with ex” situation and you are sure that your ex is the fish in the sea that you want, realize that you need to follow a system to get your ex back. A lot of men and women, try getting their ex back by doing it on a whim or on pure instinct.
We do things that scream “I’m helpless without you.” Things like crying, begging, constantly calling and texting,showering them with gifts and flowers, asking their friends if they still talk about you, and showing up at places we know our ex will be.
If you are in a “still in love with ex” situation, first thing you need to do is make sure you give your ex space and time to think about you, the break up and why it happened. Doing this shows your maturity and stability to handle the break up instead of bombarding and harassing your ex.
After this time alone is over, the two of you need to talk about the problems you both feel ended the relationship. Talk about what the two of you could have done to fix those problems together so that you both can get back to get back together. This is what to do in a “still in love with ex” situation.
