Committing yourself to one person takes a lotenergy and patience. Love is complicated, it is special, but can be confusing. A relationship has to have a strong foundation, both equally and willing it takes two to build it.
What would you do if all that you’ve built begins to crumble all around you? You’ve just discovered that your partner, your so called soul mate cheated on you. First your realize that everything he or she has told you is nothing but lies. How can you even begin to forgive them?
Trust is destroyed, the thought of your significant other having sexual intercourse with someone else, is unbearable pain. It’s the worst betrayal of all.
Statistics of cheating according to the website Love Sessions.com
While 20% of all married men have had extra marital affairs, close to 16% of all married women have strayed from their marriage to explore relationship beyond their partners. The married persons found to be cheating mostly fall under the 34 years age group. Often, married women are found to have extra marital affairs with men of younger age.
More than 71 per cent of the married women were aware of their spouses’ extra marital affairs. Similarly, 42 per cent of the married men were aware of their spouses’ affairs with other men. This kind of cheating constitutes the reason for bulk of the divorce cases.
You forgive your lover, somehow you have managed to forgive, but never forget. It’s hard especially rebuilding the trust. Tears are all gone, still the lingering in the shadows pain of infidelity. Everything seems to be back on track and the love is now stronger than it ever was. Finally happiness you have and the commitment and loyalty.
Love is in thee air, then all of a sudden you stumble upon something that you thought was buried. Your spouse is up to their old adultery ways again. Broken hearted and confuse, no matter what you continue to stand by your man or woman. Just can’t gather the strength to leave them. Why?
Loves can sometimes conquer all, it can make you do amazing and wonderful things. It also can make you do dumb and evil things too. It can convert the bad into good. It is so powerful, some people think that if they love right, they can change their partner’s deceitful ways.
If you stick with your boyfriend or girlfriend and put up with all of the chaos, do you think that by you being there and loving them, they can really change? In some cases it may work and in others, sometimes love just isn’t enough.
Can love stop a person from cheating? No. You have been cheated on several times, you are in love with a serial cheater! It’s difficult and miserable to deal with the fact that your husband or wife cannot commitment their selves to you and only you. It makes you feel insecure.
The signs of a cheater:
* Smelling like another woman’s perfume
* Coming home late
* Working extra hours
* Paycheck not accumulating to the extra hours worked
* Doesn’t seem interested in sex with you anymore
* Performing new sex positions
* Emotionally neglectful
I’m pretty sure with common sense you can figure out when something is just not right in the relationship. The signs of cheating can go on and on.
A serial cheater keeps multiple partners. There’s the chance of coming contact with sexual transmitted diseases. When you continue to allow this type of behavior, you are not treating yourself with respect and you are putting your health at risk.
It is obvious that monogamy is not on the list anymore. Sure, they can tell you that they will change and apologize for cheating. But, actions speaks louder than words. It’s painful and unfair to you. Unfortunately in certain circumstances love just can’t save a person or a relationship.
Take the love you have and love yourself. Relationships teaches great lessons. You can learn a lot. A broken heart can lead you to a greater path of a happier life.
Love, cry, learn and move on. When you keep loving someone who does not respect you enough to stop cheating, you can lose yourself. Sometimes love just isn’t enough. Open your eyes and think about what you deserve.
