Just about every guy knows what it’s like to have that one female friend that you would do just about anything to take things to the next level with. Most of the time, all it end up being is one of those one sided friendships where you end up doing all of these favors for her with the hopes that one day things will get sexual, but of course, they never do. What if there was a way that you *could* turn things around and seduce your female friend?
Here’s how to seduce a woman who is ‘just’ a friend:
1. You have to begin to work on re-framing how she sees You.
Here’s where men and women are very different. As guys, it would not take much for us to take things to the next level and become sexual with a female friend. For a woman, most of the time this is just off limits to her. So, what you really need to start to do is to make her think of you as being someone other than a friend. See, as long as she thinks of what you and her have as being purely a friendship, you are never going to get her in your bed. On the other hand, if she begins to see you in a new way, then it DOES become possible for this to happen.
2. Your female friend has to begin to feel what it’s like to miss and want you.
When she calls you on the phone, do you pick up no matter what else you are doing? Would you break plans with someone else if she wanted to just talk? If so, then these things need to stop right now, because what you need to do is to start to give her the feeling that she misses you. When she feels that way, then and only then can it start to develop into a feeling that maybe she does ‘want’ you.
3. Next time you are around her, you need to start doing things to trigger and then escalate attraction with her.
If you are serious about wanting things to change so that you can become intimate and have a sexual relationship with your female friend, then you need to stop playing it ‘safe’ with her. You need to trigger attraction in her and escalate that attraction to the point where she begins to feel sexual desire and it is directed at You. Then and only then will you be able to seduce her into your bedroom and become more than just friends.
