Have you come across someone who strikes your fancy? Perhaps you’d like to be introduced to this person, get to know him a little better, or maybe you already have a special man in your life and are hoping you can make him realize what he has with you – and never want to look back.
Whatever your reason, there are special methods and captivating qualities that women can use to their advantage in order to get that special person to take notice, pay attention, be attracted, and ultimately – want to stick around!
1. Make Small Talk!
Gather the guts to make a move! Life is short – so needless to say, make the most of it! If you want this man in your life, don’t let him get away once he finally enters it. Approach him with a smile, offer to buy a drink, and ask him some intellectual questions.
Avoid asking about the weather or your grandparents (boring!), and avoid asking about his job and his paycheck (gold-digger!) – instead, find out what he likes, what turns him on, and what makes him smile.
Try to avoid shedding any previous relationship dirt, you don’t want to risk him feeling compared or confused. However, if that does happen to get brought up, you can seize the opportunity to gauge his reaction and determine whether he still has feelings for anyone.
2. Don’t Beat Around The Bush!
If you find him attractive and really want to keep him interested in you- you need to let him know. There are several subtle yet sexy, sensual yet sweet ways you can let on that you dig him – learn to get creative with what works for you!
Hint that you are interested by taking his hand at an unexpected moment, giving him a wink and a smile after saying something coy and/or witty, among several others!
3. Be Playful!
Don’t take life quite so seriously – or yourself, for that matter! Learn to have fun, laugh in the face of humility, and smile during times of temporary turmoil. This kind of non-abrasive demeanor works like glue for your man, he’ll be stuck to your light-hearted ways!
Increase your flirtatiousness after a few weeks of getting to know him and once you both feel more comfortable. Or, if you are already with him and things are feeling somewhat stale between the two of you – use these same techniques!
He might be surprised, not to mention pleased with your sudden increase in happiness, affection, and charm – thus, encouraging him to return the favor twice fold!
4. Be True To You!
You need not air your dirty laundry in front of your man, but when the time comes, you ought to practice honesty as the best policy, with every opportunity. After all, you want a man who can embrace and accept you for who you are – flaws, faults, and all!
Nobody is perfect, and if he is mature enough to understand that and to give you a chance regardless – you will know he is truly after your heart, mind, body, and soul – and not just a one-night stand.
5. Be His ‘Other Half’
You may have just met this man, and not exactly qualified to be his ‘other half’ quite yet (as you don’t know enough about him at the moment) – however, if you want to make him fall in love with you, you must strive to eventually reach this stage.
In doing so, ensure that he always feels comfortable when he is around you in order to keep him coming back for more. Accept him for who he is, and make him feel respected and adored in exactly the same way you would expect in return.
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chastise or criticize him over something petty, never complain or moan about your current situation, and never try to change him for any reason other than to change his life for the better.
6. Be His ‘Girl-Friend’
If you want him to truly fall in love with you, for the long haul – he needs to know he has someone he can rely on, trust in, and whom supports him morally.
Hold no expectations of him, be there when he needs you, and make him realize that you only want the best for him at all times.
This will naturally trigger his protective instincts – bringing you closer to him, and making him fall in love with every minute he feels loved, accepted, adored, and NOT judged by you.
Eventually, he will realize just what he has with you – someone so amazing and accepting of him that he can’t help but fall in love and make you his, as it is only natural!
So keep at it – continually reassure your love for him and watch as his eyes turn from interested, to attracted, to absolute adoration!
Help yourself find and keep the man of your wildest dreams by doing yourself a favor today.
How?
