Ladies, is that so called friend of yours calls herelf a friedn but she really isn’t? Is she making your life miserable?
Well have no fear, cause when it comes to that subject, you’re not alone and I would definitely say absolutely yes. Cause they’re some friends that say they’re your friends but in all actuality, they’re more faker than a fake Fendi bag. Sounds kind of harsh right and then you later realize that you guys have nothing in common and came from two different worlds that just collide once the two of you hang out together.
Ladies, have you ever been in a position whereas the person you were friends with didn’t know how to treat you, let alone found yourself working harder than an average 9-5 job in order to keep the friendship going? Well if you have, then that means the she was never your friend and she was just using you to get what she wanted from you, she bascally was just acting so she can ease her way just to walk a mile in your shoes. So pathetic right!
Newsflash: When you have a real friendship, you’re not supposed to work in it and truth be told, the only relationship that you’re supposed to work hard at keeping together are your working relationships and the relationship that you have with your partner or spouse and most of all the relationship that’s most important that no one can ever touch and just work hard is the relationship that you have with yourself cause that’s one of the relationships that is priceless and can’tbe touched cause like it or not, it supercedes everything.
Now here’s a way to find out if that friendship is more faker than a fake fendi bag is if she’s having a bad day and if by chance you’re having a good one, she will automatically want you to have a bad day as well and will just try to rain on your parade. Cause if she’s Imiserable, then more than likely, she’ll want you to be miserable as well. That’s what I call a foe cause real friends aren’t supposed to act fake, treat you bad, get involved in gossip or even try to drag you in the mud when thing are going bad for them, they’re really supposed to be supportive no matter what because if you notice that you’re the only one being supportive in their time of need and they’re not being supportive in your problem areas, then you really shouldn’t be friends.
I feel like this, if a friendship doesn’t bring me joy then I automtically end it no matter what cause why should I stay in a friendship with someone who’s only going to make my life miserable as well as disrupting my comfortability level cause she’s miserable herself so do remember misery loves company! like it or not cause she entertains the drama then that friend is considered a drama queen especially if she calls you non stop after disrespecting you because she knows that the guilt is eating her alive and doesn’t know what to do with her life.
I personally know a chick as I speak at this moment while writing this article and she’s someone that I call a bug a boo cause she knows exactly all the negativity she tried to be around that she expected me to be a part of that negativity and wanted me to entertain it and that’s not something I’m into and right about now she doesn’t understand that I won’t entertain her. I mean she went as far as getting me fired frommy job that she hooked me up with.
My mother gave me her view on fake friendships that’s more faker than a fake designer bag and she said that; you can spot who’s fake and who’s not fake cause fake friends have a special voice when they’re being fake with you If you really notice and look into this closely. Fake people is always on your back non stop and want to walk a mile in your shadow and play you closely and have a way to tell you things knowing that they’re fake with their land of make believe friendships is what you call a backstabber so you must always watch out for and they act like they’re on your side but really isn’t which is more like spot changing and they start calling you names like sweethert and honey knowing it’s not true. They just say that to try to butter you up and when you turn away and turn your back they make all kinds of faces and when they’re with their friends they’ll gossip behind your back and say; that broad thinks she’s all of that and when you turn back towards them, it’s another story as they shout out and say girl, I was just thinking about you.
So when it comes to fake friendships that are more faker than a designer bag, fake friendships are faker than a $3.00 bill I know it does sound fake, cause there’s no such thing as a $3.00 bill so it doesn’t get more faker than that.
